A grumpy old Captain once told me there was fishing and “fishing
with kids”. He wasn’t adverse to small
children in that classic W.C. Fields way, but nevertheless, a tad short on
patience towards the little people. Let’s face it, doing anything with your
children, grandchildren or anyone’s children for that matter, presents moments
(perhaps even hours), when it takes everything you got, not to get a little…let’s
say frazzled. Compound that with a day on the water where you are “pot committed”
with pretty much no Happy Meal or Play Station to turn to, and things can go
sideways in a hurry.
Before we get carried away, first, realize that these are
kids we are talking about. Even those pole breaking, bait eating, button
pushing, foot stomping, “I wanna go home” kids. I have also been with kids who
never want to go home or quit fishing; the “one more cast” kinda kid (I was that kid, and maybe the foot stomper too). But let’s address the kids that aren’t
quite so enamored with a long day on the water pitching jigs all day. While we grownups
are obviously out there to do some damage and sore lip our finned adversary, it’s
important to put the little people first…even if it means sacrificing a shot at
a monster, a limit of fine eating filets, or the “targeted species”.
Step one in establishing the “grin”, and developing a life
time angler is the target species. Or should I say eliminating the target
species. The fish you are now after is the not so elusive “whateverbitis”. The
whateverbitis inhabits every place a fish lives in any part of the world.
Depending on your locale, this could be a whiting, shiner, sucker, catfish,
toadfish, gar, croaker, spot, pinfish, skate, sting ray, or, whatever bites. A child’s
first fishing trips should be about them catching something…anything! Many of
us anglers would call them trash fish, but to the child starting his angling
endeavors these are giant blue marlin and the start of a lifelong passion for
fishing. By targeting some of these easier to catch species it is very possible
that children can experience the whole thrill of dropping the bait back,
feeling the bite, and reeling in the fish! If you are hiring a guide for you
and your children, it’s often wise to let the guide know that you just want to
catch fish for the kids...of any kind. This may be the fish you had in mind, or
it maybe “whaterbitis”. Remember, this needs to be for the kids.
Another important part of your child’s fishing trip should
consist of other activities and options. Food and drink go a long way here.
Bring some of those junk foods the kids like. While I am not suggesting
changing your kids eating habits to sugary snacks and drinks, this is a special
occasion, and a special snack or two will go a long way. Establishing a ritual
of sorts, like a certain breakfast or dinner stop on the way to, or from
fishing, is a great way to bond and make the day on the water one to remember
and look forward to.
Finally, when a fish is caught, show your child all the
nuances of the fish. There may be fish with scales, fish with smooth skin,
teeth, no teeth, etc. Do not force your child to hold the fish if he does not
want to. Sometimes I give a child a
towel to hold a fish. Some fish may be small enough that a kid can hold the
line or pole and let the fish “dangle”. Be careful that the fish is not harmed
in anyway, and let the child be part of a successful live release. It is
important to stress the fact that fish need to be released healthy. If you are
catching fish to eat, explain how they are managed as far as limits and size.
Although this may be a hard pill to swallow, some children will not last very
long on the water, so plan your trip accordingly, giving yourself the option of
leaving earlier than you planned. This may even mean just planning a short trip
at first. If you take care to make your kids’ first days on the water fun ones,
you will have a fishing partner for life. And remember, fishing may not be for
everyone (God forbid!), so support your children in all healthy endeavors they
may want to pursue.